What to do when you don't know what to do.
Unexpected gifts and thoughtful ways to show up when someone you love is going through it.
Tell us what happened. We know what to send.
Grief & Loss
When "I'm so sorry" doesn't feel like enough
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Cancer & Serious Illness
No cliche mugs allowed.
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Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss
She probably doesn't need another blanket.
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Pet Loss
Because they were family.
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Breakups & Divorce
For after they changed the locks.
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Just Going Through It
No big reason needed.
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This is the pits.
A box of pitted Medjool dates for when someone is going through it. Choose one of our ready-to-send notes or write your own.
Send oneRemember the days everyone else forgets.
Some hard days come back around. Save the date, and we’ll remind you when it’s time to check in.
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Check in with Molly. One year anniversary since Rover's death.
Sometimes it's less about what happened, and more about what they need.
The best ideas here came from real people.
We asked people what genuinely helped when they were going through it: the unexpected gift, the perfectly timed text, the little gesture they never forgot. Now we’re asking you.
Know what to send. Know what to say.
Occasional emails with what to send, what to say, and how to be there.