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Pill carafe

Pill carafe

$45

They may have a lot of pills in their life, this may help them make light of it.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
The Barf Boutique bags

The Barf Boutique bags

$15

For the nausea that comes with treatment. Practical, a little funny, and genuinely useful.

practicalfunny-ishunder $50
Buy a star in their memory

Buy a star in their memory

$29.95

"Someone gifted me this after a miscarriage in honor of the baby. It was the most thoughtful gesture." Suggested by: M.G.

meaningfulunder $50
'This sucks' sympathy candle

'This sucks' sympathy candle

$28

I mean, its the truth.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
Lottery ticket

Lottery ticket

$2

$2 for mental escapism. 

funny-ishunder $50last minute
'Don't get bangs' card

'Don't get bangs' card

$6

Solid advice, honestly.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
'There is no good card for this' card

'There is no good card for this' card

$6

Sometimes there really isn't a good card. This one says it.

meaningfulunder $50last minute

Burn away cake topper

$15+

Light it up and watch his face literally burn away. Cathartic cake, highly recommend.

funny-ishunder $50
Cocktails for the Apocalypse

Cocktails for the Apocalypse

$20

As Sheryl Sandberg once said, "lean in."

funny-ishunder $50last minute
Nodpod weighted eye mask

Nodpod weighted eye mask

$34

Hospitals are bright. Help them block some of it out.

comfortingpracticalunder $50
Pickle bookmark

Pickle bookmark

$8

We love a pun. When you're in an undeniable pickle.

funny-ishunder $50last minute
Personalized voodoo doll

Personalized voodoo doll

$32

👀

funny-ishmeaningfulunder $50
Tarot deck

Tarot deck

$25

Not everyone will get it. But the right person absolutely will.

meaningfulcomfortingunder $50
Morse code bracelet

Morse code bracelet

$28

Let them carry a name, a date, or a message that's just for them.

meaningfulunder $50
Break-a-pinata kit

Break-a-pinata kit

$35

Sometimes you just need to break something. Stuff it with Substitute candy for ex's items!

funny-ishgroup giftunder $50
Trash magazines

Trash magazines

$20+

Give the gift of mental rot. No thinking required.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Foot massage

Foot massage

$40+

"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous 

meaningfulnot too intenseunder $50
Boxing class

Boxing class

$30+

Let them punch something.

practicalfunny-ishunder $50
Curse word coloring book

Curse word coloring book

$8+

Something to do with their hands while they swear about it.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Plant a tree in their memory

Plant a tree in their memory

$25+

"Knowing there was a tree growing somewhere in honor of my baby brought me a surprising amount of peace."

meaningfulunder $50
Custom Cameo video

Custom Cameo video

$25+

Sure, your advice is good. But a Real Housewives might be better. 

funny-ishmeaningfulunder $50
Custom Spotify playlist

Custom Spotify playlist

Free

If this was the 00's, you would have burned her a C.D. Do the digital version.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
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