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Pill carafe

Pill carafe

$45

They may have a lot of pills in their life, this may help them make light of it.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
Sculpd pottery kit

Sculpd pottery kit

$65

Everything they need to make something with their hands, from the couch. Quiet, absorbing, and a break from thinking about anything else.

not too intensecomfortingpractical
Memorial bear made from their clothes

Memorial bear made from their clothes

$85+

The perfect way to take their favorite old shirt and repurpose it into something to comfort them.

meaningfulcomforting
Custom beaded pet purse

Custom beaded pet purse

$180+

The ultimate tribute.

meaningfulcomforting
'This sucks' sympathy candle

'This sucks' sympathy candle

$28

I mean, its the truth.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
Redesign their wedding band

Redesign their wedding band

$300+

Out with the old and in with the new.

meaningfulcomforting
Nodpod weighted eye mask

Nodpod weighted eye mask

$34

Hospitals are bright. Help them block some of it out.

comfortingpracticalunder $50
Tarot deck

Tarot deck

$25

Not everyone will get it. But the right person absolutely will.

meaningfulcomfortingunder $50
Wool and the Gang blanket kit

Wool and the Gang blanket kit

$180

Never under estimate the gift of doing something the your hands. 

not too intensemeaningfulcomforting
Clean skincare 

Clean skincare 

$68

"Even though I wasn't pregnant yet, someone gifted me pregnancy safe skincare and I loved that." Suggested by A.W.

comforting
Soft pajamas

Soft pajamas

$100

Something soft and pretty that doesn't ask anything of her.

comfortingpractical
Ember temperature-control mug

Ember temperature-control mug

$130

Keeps their coffee or tea at the exact right temperature for hours. Perfect for people whose day gets interrupted a hundred times and whose drink always goes cold.

practicalcomforting
Custom photo playing cards

Custom photo playing cards

$30+

An easy way to pass the time with pictures of better times.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Personalized photo puzzle

Personalized photo puzzle

$35+

Remind them of better times with a favorite photo, one piece at a time.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Monogrammed tote

Monogrammed tote

$44.95+

Sometimes an unrelated funny gift is the best kind.

funny-ishnot too intense
Trash magazines

Trash magazines

$20+

Give the gift of mental rot. No thinking required.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Foot massage

Foot massage

$40+

"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous 

meaningfulnot too intenseunder $50
Sushi dinner

Sushi dinner

$50+

Take her out for a night of raw fish and wine.

meaningfulnot too intenselast minute
Curse word coloring book

Curse word coloring book

$8+

Something to do with their hands while they swear about it.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
New sheets

New sheets

$149

Fresh sheets = fresh start!

comfortingpractical
Forever flowers

Forever flowers

$30+

"Real flowers are beautiful, but they die so quickly. I sent her paper flowers that she wouldn't have to take care of."  Suggested by: anonymous  

comfortingmeaningfullast minute
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