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22 gifts

Buy a star in their memory

Buy a star in their memory

$29.95

"Someone gifted me this after a miscarriage in honor of the baby. It was the most thoughtful gesture." Suggested by: M.G.

meaningfulunder $50
Memorial bear made from their clothes

Memorial bear made from their clothes

$85+

The perfect way to take their favorite old shirt and repurpose it into something to comfort them.

meaningfulcomforting
Custom beaded pet purse

Custom beaded pet purse

$180+

The ultimate tribute.

meaningfulcomforting
'This sucks' sympathy candle

'This sucks' sympathy candle

$28

I mean, its the truth.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
'Don't get bangs' card

'Don't get bangs' card

$6

Solid advice, honestly.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
'There is no good card for this' card

'There is no good card for this' card

$6

Sometimes there really isn't a good card. This one says it.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
Redesign their wedding band

Redesign their wedding band

$300+

Out with the old and in with the new.

meaningfulcomforting
Stationary with their new name

Stationary with their new name

$28+

You'll be their first thank you card.

meaningfulpractical
Personalized voodoo doll

Personalized voodoo doll

$32

👀

funny-ishmeaningfulunder $50
Tarot deck

Tarot deck

$25

Not everyone will get it. But the right person absolutely will.

meaningfulcomfortingunder $50
Morse code bracelet

Morse code bracelet

$28

Let them carry a name, a date, or a message that's just for them.

meaningfulunder $50
Wool and the Gang blanket kit

Wool and the Gang blanket kit

$180

Never under estimate the gift of doing something the your hands. 

not too intensemeaningfulcomforting
Eterneva memorial diamond

Eterneva memorial diamond

$3,000+

Turn ashes, clothes or even hair into a lab grown diamond.

meaningful
Storyworth memoir book

Storyworth memoir book

$99

A weekly question emailed to someone you love for a year — then their answers, bound into a hardcover book. 

meaningful
Custom photo playing cards

Custom photo playing cards

$30+

An easy way to pass the time with pictures of better times.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Personalized photo puzzle

Personalized photo puzzle

$35+

Remind them of better times with a favorite photo, one piece at a time.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Foot massage

Foot massage

$40+

"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous 

meaningfulnot too intenseunder $50
Sushi dinner

Sushi dinner

$50+

Take her out for a night of raw fish and wine.

meaningfulnot too intenselast minute
Plant a tree in their memory

Plant a tree in their memory

$25+

"Knowing there was a tree growing somewhere in honor of my baby brought me a surprising amount of peace."

meaningfulunder $50
Custom Cameo video

Custom Cameo video

$25+

Sure, your advice is good. But a Real Housewives might be better. 

funny-ishmeaningfulunder $50
Custom Spotify playlist

Custom Spotify playlist

Free

If this was the 00's, you would have burned her a C.D. Do the digital version.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
Forever flowers

Forever flowers

$30+

"Real flowers are beautiful, but they die so quickly. I sent her paper flowers that she wouldn't have to take care of."  Suggested by: anonymous  

comfortingmeaningfullast minute
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