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21 gifts

Pill carafe
$45They may have a lot of pills in their life, this may help them make light of it.

Sculpd pottery kit
$65Everything they need to make something with their hands, from the couch. Quiet, absorbing, and a break from thinking about anything else.

Memorial bear made from their clothes
$85+The perfect way to take their favorite old shirt and repurpose it into something to comfort them.

Custom beaded pet purse
$180+The ultimate tribute.

'This sucks' sympathy candle
$28I mean, its the truth.

Redesign their wedding band
$300+Out with the old and in with the new.

Nodpod weighted eye mask
$34Hospitals are bright. Help them block some of it out.

Tarot deck
$25Not everyone will get it. But the right person absolutely will.

Wool and the Gang blanket kit
$180Never under estimate the gift of doing something the your hands.

Clean skincare
$68"Even though I wasn't pregnant yet, someone gifted me pregnancy safe skincare and I loved that." Suggested by A.W.

Soft pajamas
$100Something soft and pretty that doesn't ask anything of her.

Ember temperature-control mug
$130Keeps their coffee or tea at the exact right temperature for hours. Perfect for people whose day gets interrupted a hundred times and whose drink always goes cold.

Custom photo playing cards
$30+An easy way to pass the time with pictures of better times.

Personalized photo puzzle
$35+Remind them of better times with a favorite photo, one piece at a time.

Monogrammed tote
$44.95+Sometimes an unrelated funny gift is the best kind.

Trash magazines
$20+Give the gift of mental rot. No thinking required.

Foot massage
$40+"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous

Sushi dinner
$50+Take her out for a night of raw fish and wine.

Curse word coloring book
$8+Something to do with their hands while they swear about it.

New sheets
$149Fresh sheets = fresh start!

Forever flowers
$30+"Real flowers are beautiful, but they die so quickly. I sent her paper flowers that she wouldn't have to take care of." Suggested by: anonymous
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