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14 gifts

Buy a star in their memory

Buy a star in their memory

$29.95

"Someone gifted me this after a miscarriage in honor of the baby. It was the most thoughtful gesture." Suggested by: M.G.

meaningfulunder $50
'This sucks' sympathy candle

'This sucks' sympathy candle

$28

I mean, its the truth.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
Morse code bracelet

Morse code bracelet

$28

Let them carry a name, a date, or a message that's just for them.

meaningfulunder $50
Clean skincare 

Clean skincare 

$68

"Even though I wasn't pregnant yet, someone gifted me pregnancy safe skincare and I loved that." Suggested by A.W.

comforting
Soft pajamas

Soft pajamas

$100

Something soft and pretty that doesn't ask anything of her.

comfortingpractical
Personalized photo puzzle

Personalized photo puzzle

$35+

Remind them of better times with a favorite photo, one piece at a time.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Monogrammed tote

Monogrammed tote

$44.95+

Sometimes an unrelated funny gift is the best kind.

funny-ishnot too intense
Trash magazines

Trash magazines

$20+

Give the gift of mental rot. No thinking required.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Foot massage

Foot massage

$40+

"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous 

meaningfulnot too intenseunder $50
Sushi dinner

Sushi dinner

$50+

Take her out for a night of raw fish and wine.

meaningfulnot too intenselast minute
Boxing class

Boxing class

$30+

Let them punch something.

practicalfunny-ishunder $50
Curse word coloring book

Curse word coloring book

$8+

Something to do with their hands while they swear about it.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Plant a tree in their memory

Plant a tree in their memory

$25+

"Knowing there was a tree growing somewhere in honor of my baby brought me a surprising amount of peace."

meaningfulunder $50
Custom Spotify playlist

Custom Spotify playlist

Free

If this was the 00's, you would have burned her a C.D. Do the digital version.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
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