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15 gifts

Buy a star in their memory

Buy a star in their memory

$29.95

"Someone gifted me this after a miscarriage in honor of the baby. It was the most thoughtful gesture." Suggested by: M.G.

meaningfulunder $50
Memorial bear made from their clothes

Memorial bear made from their clothes

$85+

The perfect way to take their favorite old shirt and repurpose it into something to comfort them.

meaningfulcomforting
'There is no good card for this' card

'There is no good card for this' card

$6

Sometimes there really isn't a good card. This one says it.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
Tarot deck

Tarot deck

$25

Not everyone will get it. But the right person absolutely will.

meaningfulcomfortingunder $50
Morse code bracelet

Morse code bracelet

$28

Let them carry a name, a date, or a message that's just for them.

meaningfulunder $50
Eterneva memorial diamond

Eterneva memorial diamond

$3,000+

Turn ashes, clothes or even hair into a lab grown diamond.

meaningful
Custom photo playing cards

Custom photo playing cards

$30+

An easy way to pass the time with pictures of better times.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Personalized photo puzzle

Personalized photo puzzle

$35+

Remind them of better times with a favorite photo, one piece at a time.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Monogrammed tote

Monogrammed tote

$44.95+

Sometimes an unrelated funny gift is the best kind.

funny-ishnot too intense
Trash magazines

Trash magazines

$20+

Give the gift of mental rot. No thinking required.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Foot massage

Foot massage

$40+

"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous 

meaningfulnot too intenseunder $50
Curse word coloring book

Curse word coloring book

$8+

Something to do with their hands while they swear about it.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Plant a tree in their memory

Plant a tree in their memory

$25+

"Knowing there was a tree growing somewhere in honor of my baby brought me a surprising amount of peace."

meaningfulunder $50
Custom Spotify playlist

Custom Spotify playlist

Free

If this was the 00's, you would have burned her a C.D. Do the digital version.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
Forever flowers

Forever flowers

$30+

"Real flowers are beautiful, but they die so quickly. I sent her paper flowers that she wouldn't have to take care of."  Suggested by: anonymous  

comfortingmeaningfullast minute
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