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16 gifts

Pill carafe

Pill carafe

$45

They may have a lot of pills in their life, this may help them make light of it.

funny-ishcomfortingunder $50
The Barf Boutique bags

The Barf Boutique bags

$15

For the nausea that comes with treatment. Practical, a little funny, and genuinely useful.

practicalfunny-ishunder $50
Sculpd pottery kit

Sculpd pottery kit

$65

Everything they need to make something with their hands, from the couch. Quiet, absorbing, and a break from thinking about anything else.

not too intensecomfortingpractical
Lottery ticket

Lottery ticket

$2

$2 for mental escapism. 

funny-ishunder $50last minute
'There is no good card for this' card

'There is no good card for this' card

$6

Sometimes there really isn't a good card. This one says it.

meaningfulunder $50last minute
Nodpod weighted eye mask

Nodpod weighted eye mask

$34

Hospitals are bright. Help them block some of it out.

comfortingpracticalunder $50
Tarot deck

Tarot deck

$25

Not everyone will get it. But the right person absolutely will.

meaningfulcomfortingunder $50
Wool and the Gang blanket kit

Wool and the Gang blanket kit

$180

Never under estimate the gift of doing something the your hands. 

not too intensemeaningfulcomforting
Storyworth memoir book

Storyworth memoir book

$99

A weekly question emailed to someone you love for a year — then their answers, bound into a hardcover book. 

meaningful
Ember temperature-control mug

Ember temperature-control mug

$130

Keeps their coffee or tea at the exact right temperature for hours. Perfect for people whose day gets interrupted a hundred times and whose drink always goes cold.

practicalcomforting
Custom photo playing cards

Custom photo playing cards

$30+

An easy way to pass the time with pictures of better times.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Personalized photo puzzle

Personalized photo puzzle

$35+

Remind them of better times with a favorite photo, one piece at a time.

meaningfulcomfortingnot too intense
Trash magazines

Trash magazines

$20+

Give the gift of mental rot. No thinking required.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Foot massage

Foot massage

$40+

"Foot massages lets her know she’s not alone sitting next to her friend but also a place where it’s 100 percent acceptable not to talk at all." Suggested by: anonymous 

meaningfulnot too intenseunder $50
Curse word coloring book

Curse word coloring book

$8+

Something to do with their hands while they swear about it.

funny-ishnot too intenseunder $50
Forever flowers

Forever flowers

$30+

"Real flowers are beautiful, but they die so quickly. I sent her paper flowers that she wouldn't have to take care of."  Suggested by: anonymous  

comfortingmeaningfullast minute
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